Note that matrices in N are of the form \(\displaystyle \begin{pmatrix}-3d & 2c \\ c & d\end{pmatrix}\) while matrices in M are of the form \(\displaystyle \begin{pmatrix}p & q \\ -q & r \end{pmatrix}\).
Any matrix in \(\displaystyle M\cap N\) must have -3d= p, 2c= q, c= -q, and d=r.
Now, what does "M:R" mean? Is it the dimension of M as a vector space over R?