I do not understand pka's answer so I may be wrong here.
My way gives the answer of
[MATH]\dbinom{9}{2} * \dbinom{7}{2} * 2 = \dfrac{9 * 8 * 7 * 6 * 2}{2 * 2} = 1512.[/MATH]
Your way of
[MATH]\dbinom{9}{1} * \dbinom{8}{1} * \dbinom{8}{1} * \dbinom{7}{1} = 4032[/MATH]
is far too large.
You can attack it your way, but it requires great care.
First to form the pair of men you can choose one man from 9 and then another man from the 8 remaining. But there are not now 8 woman to choose from: each man has a wife, reducing the number of woman to choose from to 7. So you can first choose one woman from 7 and then choose another woman from the remaining 6.
So your first mistake was there.
Your second mistake was not realizing that you counted each possible pair of men twice. You could pick A first and B second or vice versa. You need to divide by 2.
Similarly, with the woman, you could pick X first and then pick Y or pick Y first and then pick X. Again you need to divide by 2.
And given the male pair of A and B and the femaile pair of X and Y, we can form teams AX and BY or teams AY and BX. So you need to multiply by 2.
So if you do your method correctly you get
[MATH]\dfrac{\dbinom{9}{1} * \dbinom{8}{1}}{2} * \dfrac{\dbinom{7}{1} * \dbinom{6}{1}}{2} * 2 =[/MATH]
[MATH]\dfrac{9 * 8}{2} * \dfrac{7 * 6}{2} * 2 = 36 * 21 * 2 = 1512.[/MATH]
As I say, I may be spouting nonsense. Pka is very good at this stuff.