Please quote exactly what you read!
It should be obvious that the mean of a particular sample will only rarely equal the mean of the population; but the
mean of the distribution of sample means is equal to the population mean, so that any particular sample mean will be an
approximation of the population mean. The specific words make a big difference!
Here is what
Wikipedia says:
The
sampling distribution of a population mean is generated by repeated sampling and recording of the means obtained. This forms a distribution of different means, and this distribution has its own
mean and
variance. Mathematically, the variance of the sampling distribution obtained is equal to the variance of the population divided by the sample size. This is because
as the sample size increases, sample means cluster more closely around the population mean.
... In other words, the standard error of the mean is a measure of the dispersion of sample means around the population mean.
So the standard error of the mean isn't so much an estimate of an individual sample's mean's deviation from the population mean, as a measure of how far such sample means typically vary. On average, the sample mean is close to the population mean, but it varies; and the bigger the sample, the less you can expect it to deviate.