the defintions I have been given are:
reflexive - a relation is reflexive if each element in the set is related to itself.
symmetric - a relation is symmetric if element b is related to element a whenever a is related to b.
transitive - a realtion is transitive if, given that a is related to b and b is related to c, it is necessarily true that a is related to c.
The example i have been given is, in the set of integers with the relation a is related to b if a divides b, the realtion is reflexive because a / a (why is this reflexive??). The relation is not symmetric because it is not necessarily true that a/b implies b/a. It is transitive becasue when a divides b and b divides c, it is always true that a divides c (where does c come from?).
thanks