That's pretty much just algebra. \(\displaystyle \frac{2}{x+ 3}- \frac{1}{3}= \frac{6}{3(x+ 3)}- \frac{x+ 3}{3(x+ 3)}= \frac{3- x}{3(x+ 3)}\). The absolute value of that gives \(\displaystyle \left|\frac{3- x}{3(x+ 3)}\right|=\)\(\displaystyle \left|\frac{1}{3(x+ 3)}\right||x- 3|\). You want to find, for any \(\displaystyle \epsilon> 0\), to find \(\displaystyle \delta> 0\) such that "if \(\displaystyle |x- 3|< \delta\) then \(\displaystyle \left|\frac{1}{3(x+ 3)}\right||x- 3|< \epsilon\). What you need to do is find bounds for that \(\displaystyle \left|\frac{1}{x(x+ 3)}\right|\). Since we are talking about the "limit as x goes to 3" we can start by assuming that x is close to 3: say 2< x< 4 just because those numbers are easy. Then 5< x+ 3< 7 and (5)(2)= 10< x(x+ 3)< 4(7)= 28. From that \(\displaystyle \frac{1}{28}< \frac{1}{x(x+ 3)}< \frac{1}{10}\). Those numbers are all positive so we don't need to worry about the absolute value. Now we know that, as long as x is between 2 and 4, that is, as long as x- 3 is between -1 and 1 so |x- 3|< 1, we have
\(\displaystyle \frac{1}{28}|x- 3|< \left|\frac{1}{3(x+3)}\right||x- 3|< \frac{1}{10}|x- 3|\).